One of my huge dilemmas with relationships, I feel, is that I tend to end up with guys who I believe to be out of my league. My friends always roll their eyes at me when I tell them that such and such person is way too attractive for me. Some of them even go on to say that I'm too good for that person, or others say that no such thing exists as long as the two of you are true about each other. I totally agree with the latter statement, but if you believe that someone is out of your league, you tend to become totally awkward when meeting their friends, when displaying affection in public, and so on.
Recently I've been flirting more and more with a total pretty boy... I'm not sure if he's gay... but he blushes whenever I do anything for him, things as simple as opening a door for him. I don't flirt with him to try to get something started between us, I just think he's really cute and I don't think he even notices that he's flirting when he compliments me (okay, he's only done it twice, but that's still something). Here's the problem, I'm starting to think that he's interested in becoming more than just acquaintances, but I don't know if that means better friends or dating (like I said, I don't even know if he's gay). I just can't read him because he's way too hot and I think he just acts the way he does because he knows that everyone wants him...and even if he were to like me, I'd feel way too intimidated to go out with him. Feeling intimidated has never stopped me from getting involved with someone before, but this guy would even intimidate the hell out of the guys that I've felt intimidated about. God it's so confusing to feel that someone who you feel would never like you might actually be into you, while at the same time thinking that if this person really does have those feelings, that they're just fleeting feelings, because again, they would never be into you...and still at the same time, feeling that you're stupid for not making any advances because you think that it's this person's obligation to ask you out because they're more attractive than you are!!!
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Dude, I just have a few things to say.. Frist, You gotta be kidding !!.. you're going 2 Europe!!.. dude that is awsome.. its going to be hell out amazing!.. I might going to Paris by the end of this year as you probably read.. but i can't imagine how would it feels like to be entirely sure those are going to be your immediate plans... (Y)and what it comes to be open for dating or not.. I had the exact same question going around in my head...and 'till this moment i just haven't been able to get rid of it.. but what I am sure: if you meet someone in which you might think could be a worth thing.. don't heasitate to be entirely and mindly opend to get into it.. As long as you be honest.. look, in my experience... if its going to be something real.. it will be strong enough to take any time and distance. But if it's not the case.. don't worry.. don't be rude with yourself.. I believe in no limitations.. I believe in enjoing life and all the special moments it brings with.. always with responsability.
Having and enjoing your sex live won't make you worthless, much less a bad person.. remember one thing: What really makes a person valuable.. is what it's in his head... not by his almost non sex experience.
and.. about the cute guy.. there is a Spanish phrase that fits very well to what i wanted to tell you: "Dale tiempo al tiempo" (Give time to time)that its all i have to say.. over the time things will clear up... in the meantime.. dont rush..
Un abrazo!..
First of all, find out if he's even gay. Then you can proceed to freak out about him being out of your league lol.
Hi, there. My name's Hartwell. I go through similar things with guys, but I think this pretty boy's definitely gay... He blushes?? And compliments?? It's at least worth a shot...
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